Live your life to the fullest.
Dance as if no one were watching,
Sing as if no one were listening,
And live every day as if it were your last.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thanksgiving 2010



I have so much to be thankful for.  I grew up in a family where I always knew I was loved.  My parents did without things they wanted and/or needed to provide for me.  They taught me to take pride in my work and to always do the best job I was capable of doing.  I have been blessed with wonderful friends and associates who have put up with all my faults and deficiencies.  Believe me, I have MANY.  I have been blessed with good health and an excellent support system.  I hope to concentrate more on all the positives and not to dwell on the negatives.  I'm a lucky guy!

Monday, November 15, 2010

First Time Ever I Saw Your Face

This is always brings me back to 1971-72 in college . . . I love nostalgia.  

First Time Ever I Saw Your Face


The first time ever I saw your face 
I thought the sun rose in your eyes 
And the moon and the stars were the gifts you gave
To the dark and the end of the skies 

And the first time ever I kissed your mouth 
I felt the earth move in my hand 
Like the trembling heart of a captive bird 
That was there at my command, my love 

And the first time ever I lay with you 
I felt your heart so close to mine 
And I knew our joy would fill the earth 
And last, till the end of time, my love 

The first time ever I saw your face 
Your face 
Your face 
Your face... 

Monday, November 8, 2010

Just The Way You Look Tonight

I think I loved this song the first time I heard it and young Kris Allen does and admirable job!


Some day, when I'm awfully low, 
When the world is cold, 
I will feel a glow just thinking of you... 
And the way you look tonight. 

Yes you're lovely, with your smile so warm 
And your cheeks so soft, 
There is nothing for me but to love you, 
And the way you look tonight. 

With each word your tenderness grows, 
Tearing my fear apart... 
And that laugh that wrinkles your nose, 
It touches my foolish heart. 

Lovely ... Never, ever change. 
Keep that breathless charm. 
Won't you please arrange it ? 
'Cause I love you ... Just the way you look tonight. 

Mm, Mm, Mm, Mm, 
Just the way you look to-night. 

Monday, November 1, 2010

Joan Sutherland (1926-2010)




In the U.S. in the  1970's you were either a Joan Sutherland fan or a Beverly Sills fan.  I chose the American girl . . . Beverly Sills.  As I grew older and more mature I began to develop an admiration for Joan Sutherland.  Sills was the better actress and probably a better musician but, without doubt, Sutherland had the better instrument and a career that lasted over forty years.  Sutherland was most definitely a bigger international singing star than Sills.  She wasn't dubbed "La Stupenda" without reason.  I was so sad to hear of her death while I was in Croatia on October 10th.

It's interesting that Sills' last opera performances were with Joan Sutherland in the San Diego Opera production of "Die Fledermaus" in October of 1980.  Two divas finally joined together in what was supposedly a very happy collaboration.  They had nothing to prove to each other or the public.  They were both "class acts"

Here is a short biography I found online:


Australian soprano Joan Sutherland was one of the world's most famous and beloved opera performers, known for her lovely voice, remarkable range, and commanding stage presence. Her father, a tailor, died when she was six years old, and her mother, an amateur singer and piano teacher who introduced her to music, would not allow her to take formal music lessons until she turned 18 years of age.
She worked as a typist after high school, and won two years of free vocal lessons in an amateur competition. She made her professional debut in Sidney in 1947, playing Dido in Henry Purcell's Dido and Aeneas, and soon came to London, where she studied at the Royal College of Music and was hired by the Royal Opera for £10 a week, after her third audition.
She was mentored by and married to conductor Richard Bonynge, and he urged her toward the coloratura repertoire. Well reviewed from the beginning, she had a long apprenticeship of supporting roles at Covent Garden, and made her breakthrough performance in a 1959 production of Gaetano Donizetti's Lucia di Lammermoor, which became her signature role. In the same year she underwent an experimental sinus operation to resolve recurring problems with clogged nasal passages.
She was best known for performances in the bel canto repertoire, an Italian term loosely applied to the elegant Italian singing style of the 18th and early 19th centuries, featuring vocal trills, extreme high notes and other musical embellishments that can showcase a singer's shortcomings or brilliance. The bel canto style, heard in the operas of Vincenzo Bellini and Gioacchino Rossini, was not frequently performed when Bonynge helped her master it, but was revived in the popular repertoire largely through Sutherland's spectacular performances. It was Italian audiences who gave her the nickname "La Stupenda".
Bonynge was Sutherland's preferred director for the length of her career. "For me he is the perfect conductor," she said. "He knows how to allow for breathing, and he has a complete knowledge of how I feel and what I am capable of." A diva only on stage, she was universally described as down the earth in her private life. She retired in 1990, closing her career with an operatic rendition of "Home Sweet Home" in her home town, at the Sydney Opera House. She died in 2010, leaving some sixty albums and a reputation as one of the most celebrated opera singers of all time.





Monday, October 25, 2010

No One Is Alone from "Into the Woods"

Another beautiful lyric which I would like to share.

The incomparable Bernadette Peters sings "No One Is Alone"

CINDERELLA
Mother cannot guide you.
Now you're on you're own.
Only me beside you.
Still, you're not alone.
No one is alone, truly.
No one is alone.

Sometimes people leave you
halfway through the wood.
Others may deceive you.
You decide what's good.
You decide alone.
But no one is alone.

LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD
I wish...

CINDERELLA(To Little Red)
I know... 
Mother isn't here now. BAKER(to Jack) 
Wrong things, right things...
Who knows what she'd say?
Who can say what's true?
Nothing's quite so clear now- 
Do things, fight things...
Feel you've lost your way? 
You decide, but
You are not alone, You are not alone.
Believe me.
No one is alone. 
No one is alone,
Believe me.
Truly...

BOTH
You move just a finger,
Say the slightest word,
Something's bound to linger,
Be heard. 
No one acts alone.
Careful, no one is alone.
CINDERELLA
People make mistakes. People make mistakes.
Fathers,
Mothers,

BOTH
People make mistakes,
Holding their own,
Thinking they're alone.

CINDERELLA
Honor their mistakes... 
Fight for their mistakes-
Everybody makes-

BOTH
One another's 
Terrible mistakes.
Witches can be right,
Giants can be good.
You decide what's right,
You dedide what's good.

CINDERELLA
Just remember:

BAKER
Just remember:

BOTH
Someone is on your side.

LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD & JACK
Our side.

CINDERELLA & BAKER
Our side-
Someone else is not.
While we're seeing our side-

LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD & JACK
Our side....

CINDERELLA & BAKER
Our side-

ALL
Maybe we forgot:
They are not alone.
No one is alone.

CINDERELLA
Hard to see the light now.

BAKER
Just don't let it go.

BOTH
Things will come out tight now.
We can make it so.
Someone is on you side,
No one is alone. 

Monday, October 18, 2010

I've Never Been So Low on Love




Another one of my favorites from Barry Manilow's "2:00 AM Paradise Cafe".  In my opinion it's a classic.


We'll I've never been so low on love
And I know I never hurt so bad
I never tried so hard
Just to see it fall apart
Just to lose the sweetest love I ever had
We'll I've never been so low on love
And I know I'll never be the same
I know you meant to stay
So if I drove you away
Oh I know that I'm the only one to blame
They say that every day
should make me stranger
and one day I won't think of you at all
but every day you're gone the days get longer
and all I do is wait for you to call
We'll I've never been so low on love
And I know that as the years go by
I'll still be lovin' you
When I'm holdin' someone new
And when I think about the tears
you made me cry
I know you never really cared enough
And I've never been so low on love


Songwriters:  Barry Manilow and Marty Panzer

Monday, October 11, 2010

Once Upon a Time

I have always loved this melody and lyric.  The innocence and ignorance  of youth is something you become more aware of as you age.  Missed opportunities. Too concerned about the opinions of others.  If only I could do it all over again.



A girl with moonlight in her eyes
Put her hand in mine
And said she loved me so
But that was once upon a time
Very long ago

Once upon a hill


We sat beneath a willow tree
Counting all the stars and waiting for the dawn
But that was once upon a time
Now the tree is gone




How the breeze ruffled through her hair
How we always laughed as though tomorrow wasn't there
We were young and didn't have a care
Where did it go




Once upon a time
The world was sweeter than we knew
Everything was ours
How happy we were then
But somehow once upon a time
Never comes again




Once upon a time
Never comes again




"Once Upon a Time" is a song with music by Charles Strouse and lyrics by Lee Adams from the 1962 musical All American.

Monday, October 4, 2010

What I Have Done Since Retirement

I retired from teaching in June of 2008.  Since then life has been quite good!  Here's a list of what I have done in a little over two years.


Major Trips or at least an overnight:
California Trip (July '08)
New Orleans Trip (October '08)
Atlantic City Trip (November '08)
London  (March '09)
Madison, WI  (May '09)
Stockbridge, MA (July '09)
Ogunquit (July '09)
Providence, RI (August '09)
Las Vegas (October '09)
Vienna, Budapest, Croatia, Bosnia, Montenegro and Serbia (October '10)

Day Trips
Block Island
Nantucket
Thimble Islands
Martha's Vineyard
Boston:  4th of July
Lighthouse Cruise 
Wagner College ("Tommy" and Brigadoon")
 Abbey of Regina Laudis, Lourdes Shrine & Topsmead 
Tanglewood


Guildford Fair
Seville Dam, Old New Gate Prison
Big E (2)
Southford Falls and Kettletown
Mount Tom State Park
Chatfield Hollow
Yale Tour
New Haven Church Tour, State Street Building and East Rock
Steep Rock Reservation
North Guilford Country Fair
Palace Theater Tour
Ivoryton Playhouse ("The Full Monty")
Long Wharf Theater
Goodspeed Opera House
Sharon Playhouse ("Oklahoma")
NYC:  "La Cage", "Next Fall" 
NYC:  Cathedral of Saint John the Devine, Morning Side area and  "A Little Night Music"
Kent Falls, Bull's Bridge and Cornwall Covered Bridge
Patty LuPone @ Caramoor 
Carnegie Hall Series (5 recitals 2010-11
NYCO:  Music of Bernstein, Music of Schwartz & "A Quiet Place
NYCO Backstage Tour

Monday, September 27, 2010

Sister Teresita Catalano, OSU Celebrates 60th Jubilee

On my post of July 14th I spoke about the influence of Sister Teresita on my life.  Sister celebrated her 60th Jubilee of entering the order of the Ursuline Sisters of Tildonk on September 8th of this year.  I sent her a dozen roses and had another wonderful conversation with her that night on the telephone.  Unfortunately, the official celebration at the Mother House in Blue Point, New York will be in October while I'm away on my trip to Croatia, Bosnia and Serbia.  There was also a celebration of all the jubilarians on September 14th at St. Agnes Cathedral in her diocese.  Below is a tribute which was published in the Sunday Bulletin of Saint William the Abbott Church where Sister Teresita currently resides.


From the Pastor’s Desk:  Saint William the Abbott Church (Seaford, Long Island)


Our other honoree is Sr. Teresita Catalano, OSU, who will be celebrating her sixtieth year in religious life at a special Mass at St. Agnes Cathedral this Tuesday, with other jubilarians from the diocese.  Sr. Teresita has a great fondness for the Feast of the Nativity of Mary because it was the name of her home parish; she began her religious life on the Feast of the Nativity (Sept. 8, 1950); and her first teaching assignment was at Nativity School in Ozone Park. In later assignments, Sister taught at Our Lady of Victory in West Haven, CT, at St. William the Abbot School (1966-68), at Our Lady of Grace School in Howard Beach, and again at Nativity, where she served as principal. Before coming again to St. William’s in 1979 to teach music, she also served at other Ursuline institutions, such as their retreat house in Oyster Bay and a home for the mentally handicapped. Throughout these years, Sr. Teresita also taught in the Religious Education programs of her parishes. After retiring in 2002, she continues to give piano lessons at the convent here in the parish. Sr. Teresita has made many friends and admirers after her many years at St. William’s, and on behalf of the parish she has served so well, I congratulate her and ask God to continue to bless her.





Sister Teresita (standing)
60th Jubilee Celebration October 16, 2010


Sister Teresita (seated far left)
60th Jubilee Celebration at St. Agnes Cathedral



May 19, 2012 The Nativity BVM Alumni Association held a luncheon honoring Sr. Marguerite Torre's 60th Anniversary as an Ursuline Sister.  Sister Teresita Catalano, OSU is on the far left. 


Monday, September 20, 2010

And So It Goes

There are songs that you know you are going to love only after hearing the first chord.  For me, that was the case with Billy Joel's  "And So it Goes".  I'm so thankful that the beautiful melody is matched with such a plaintive lyric.



In every heart there is a room 
A sanctuary safe and strong 
To heal the wounds from lovers past 
Until a new one comes along 

I spoke to you in cautious tones 
You answered me with no pretense 
And still I feel I said too much 
My silence is my self defense 

And every time I've held a rose 
It seems I only felt the thorns 
And so it goes, and so it goes 
And so will you soon I suppose 

But if my silence made you leave 
Then that would be my worst mistake 
So I will share this room with you 
And you can have this heart to break 

And this is why my eyes are closed 
It's just as well for all I've seen 
And so it goes, and so it goes 
And you're the only one who knows 

So I would choose to be with you 
That's if the choice were mine to make 
But you can make decisions too 
And you can have this heart to break 

And so it goes, and so it goes 
And you're the only one who knows. 

Monday, September 13, 2010

Smile



Smile though your heart is aching 
Smile even though it's breaking. 
When there are clouds in the sky 
you'll get by. 
If you smile through your fear and sorrow 
Smile and maybe tomorrow 
You'll see the sun shining through 
For you. 
Light up your face with gladness, 
Hide every trace of sadness. 
Although a tear may be ever so near 
That's the time you must keep on trying 
Smile, what's the use of crying. 
You'll find that life is still worthwhile- 
If you just smile.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Success

When I was in high school, someone wrote to Ann Landers and ask her if she had a good definition for "success".  She responded by printing the quote below.  I cut it out . . . laminated it and carried it in my wallet for years.  I never forgot it, especially the line "To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived . . .  this is to have succeeded."  For years Ralph Waldo Emerson had been given credit for this "definition" but it seems that that is not the case.  You can find further information about the whole history behind this verse in search of success.  No matter who wrote it, it certainly is achievable.



To laugh often and much;

To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;

To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;

To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;

To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;

To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.

This is to have succeeded.



--- inaccurately attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson